Follow Your Dreams!

We all have an idea of what we want to do with our lives, but how often do we follow through. Yes, sometimes life gets in the way. But, how many times have we gotten in our own way? When considering most adults are married or have children, it may seem that these are perfectly good reasons why certain things haven't been accomplished. I say it is a crutch. You many have to work a little harder or spend less time doing recreational activities, but should those reasons really stop all of the wonderful goals you have for yourself. Just take a moment to consider how much better you could be for the ones you love if you also took the time to make yourself happy. So I ask you, why haven't you followed your dreams?

Why would a man need to marry you if he already gets all that he considers to be the benefits of marriage?

Why would a man need to marry you if he already gets all that he considers to be the benefits of marriage?  How much is too much when you are just dating?

Warning!! The risks of dating/marrying me are greater than the benefits.

I've been thinking about relationships lately, and I am curious about a few things. So many people pride themselves in being a "Strong Black Woman", but who are you working so hard to convince? Wouldn't it make sense to work smarter, not harder? We, black women, have always felt the need to work harder. Why? Yes, we need to take the best possible care of our families. Yes, we should support our families financially. However, whats wrong with holding the men {and I use that term loosely} in our lives responsible? Now don't take that statement and run with it! I'm not talking child support. I want to know why more focus is not placed on grooming great wives, than just good baby mommas. Submitting to a man really isn't a bad idea if done for the right reasons. Do I enjoy cooking and cleaning? NO! However, I would become Martha Stewart for the right man. I know what I am capable of and I'm tired of proving myself to people who could really care less.

Advice for our girls!!!

What advice would you offer a young girl in an attempt to save her from having to learn something the hard way?

The children are our future....

More people need to realize children are our future..think about that for a minute. Do you fully understand the weight behind that statement? Not just your kids either, all the kids of today affect you and your family's tomorrow!

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What are you afraid of? If you say nothing, you probably are not being honest with yourself. We all have fears, some just more than others. Maybe you have an obvious fear of bugs or dogs? But that is not what I am talking about. I am talking about fear of rejection, failure, or death. Most of us have one or all of these fears, but we rarely do anything about them. The bigger question is why these fears manifest? I am no doctor, but I do know that past situations have a lot to do with it. With that being said, what should one do to overcome these fears? Do you seek the help of professionals or do you tackle it alone?

Exclusive Ladies' Night!!!!

This ladies night will be BIGGER & BETTER than the previous!!!

Come let your hair down and satisfy all of your senses (and get ideas to appeal to his/hers) !!

Touch: Be treated to tempting spa treatments for your hands, feet and lips...

ALSO!!! There will be a makeover station!!!! Sample latest trends and learn personalized beauty secrets!!

PLUS!!!! You will learn new ideas and special techniques, sample exciting products and reap the rewards of an enhanced, super-satisfying, love-life. It’s the perfect setting to bond with friends and have a great time sharing the secret joys that only Slumber Parties’ products can bring!!

Sound:Relax as soothing music fills the room

Taste: Get modern tips from a pampered chef on how to make dinner in no time!!

Food and a selection of wine (& spirits) will be served!!!!

Sight: We all know men are visual beings right? Get some ideas on how to totally appease their visual taste buds!!! From the decor & lingerie, to the food and "dessert" !!!

Smell: Let and our personal candle specialist shows us how to set the mood as relaxing aromatherapy fills the air !!!

Definitely an all adult theme!!!

More details to come!!!

All inclusive ladies night is only $5 if purchased in advance!

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PS: Play games and win door prizes!!!

+ a special goodie bag for all guests!!!!

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